For some guys, even though they may not look all that attractive (objectively), it is often incredibly easy to find a girlfriend. While many other guys sincerely believe that finding the girl of their dreams or just getting into a relationship is an almost impossible task.
So, if you are single, dreaming of meeting the perfect girl, but this does not happen or does not work out, then this is almost certainly due to one of the following two errors listed below:
A lot of guys make this mistake and often do it over the decades of their lives.
Such a guy will go to school, at university, work at his first casual or part-time job, then work full-time, but all this time he will say to himself: “I will start approaching and meet beautiful women when I am successful, when I bring myself in order when I achieve this or that, and so on."
Such insecure men often do not even realize that many other guys are on the same level as them, but only at the same time they constantly communicate with attractive women and start relationships with them.
It is important to understand that when a man has an idea in his head that he is “not good enough yet,” then in the future all this develops into loser complexes or hatred of beautiful women who, allegedly, are not interested in him and only money is important to them.
It's just important to understand that 90% of married men around the world are not millionaires or incredibly successful and famous people, they go to regular jobs, receive an average salary and are married to beautiful women whom they themselves have chosen.
When a guy does not want to be rejected by women or if he is afraid of this feeling, then he will never try to make the first move and suggest, for example, a girl he knows who he likes to go on a date with him.
He is also unlikely to want to ask a pretty girl for a phone number and hear from her banal: “I already have a boyfriend” or “why are you asking me for my phone number? For what purpose?"
When a man is afraid or unwilling to go through any of these potentially emotionally painful moments that could damage his masculinity and self-confidence, he simply chooses not to take the first step. As a result, he gets stuck in a kind of suspended state, in which he (possibly) seems interesting to the women around him, but with these women he simply does not have anything.
If you want to find yourself a girlfriend, then just understand that it is incredibly easy! Never look at this as an impossible task.
Most women are damn easy to take to the next level in a relationship. And any refusal in your direction is not the end of the world, it is just a refusal. Many women have their own tastes and preferences, just like you. Therefore, treat a possible rejection as a failed attempt and simply turn your attention to other women.
Remember, most women crave love. They are looking for a confident guy. They want to have a good time. They want to have sex too. Most of them are not interested in a giant wallet, perfect beauty, or hefty muscles. All your success lies in masculine confidence, charisma, sense of humor and natural charm, and if you are deprived of these things, then they can always be developed if desired.
