A Reddit user with the nickname littleboxhero wondered how girls with not very attractive appearance can win the attention of the opposite sex. In the comments to her post, men shared what they are most attracted to women, apart from looks.
The author of the post admitted that interlocutors in dating apps rated her appearance from four to seven on a ten-point scale. The girl noted that it is much easier for beautiful people to make an acquaintance, and she has to try only to get an answer from a potential partner. "What are the ways to interest you?" - she asked the men with a question.
Users recommended the author of the post to behave confidently - this quality they considered the most attractive in people. Some drew her attention to the fact that women rarely take the initiative, compliment men, or invite them out on dates. According to the authors of these comments, it is through these actions that you can attract the attention of men. Another way to win over a member of the opposite sex on Reddit was called "pleasant character." “When I'm looking for someone, I ignore the appearance and try to get to know the person,” wrote Moskyrath.
Many advised the girl to think about the fact that there is no universal attraction. “When we went to bars with a neighbor, he always gave sixes to those girls whom I rated as nine or ten, and vice versa,” A_Bridgeburner admitted.
Some added that they considered the ten-point system for assessing people's appearance disgusting and incorrect. “If you look in the mirror and you don’t like what you see there, you’re not ugly, you’re just not your type,” says UnicornQueenFaye.
Earlier matchmaker from the program "Let's get married!" Roza Syabitova advised women not to make the "main mistake" on the first date. According to the presenter, women should not show a “consumer attitude towards a man” and the fact that they consider a potential partner as a “variant of a rental and investment project”.
